When life has to be a certain way in order to be good enough for you, you instantly close yourself off from all the real and present opportunities available – you spend all your mental energy resisting life, rather than making the best of it.
Sadly, this is how the vast majority of the human population lives – stuck in a perpetual cycle of resistance.
But YOU DON’T have to continue this cycle.
You can change your mind!
When you consciously choose to let go of the way it “should” be, you free your mind to deal with life’s unexpected changes, challenges and chaos in the most effective way possible…
You create space for acceptance, learning and growth.
You learn from your mistakes and the mistakes of others.
And gradually, you allow yourself to step forward with a clear and focused mind.
Closing the door, completing the chapter, turning the page, etc. – it doesn’t matter what you title it…what matters is that you find the strength to leave in the past those parts of your life that were not meant to be, so you can better attend to the present.
What has happened is uncontrollable; what you do now changes everything!
Of course, knowing this and actually living a lifestyle that reinforces this truth are two very different things. Letting go is NOT easy; it’s a journey that is traveled one day at a time. Know you are not alone in this. We all work through it, some days feel more successful than others. The important thing is to know that you did you best, each and every time. And make it a point Think Better!